Darkness After Narcissistic Abuse

Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse

Your brokenness after narcissistic abuse is not a reflection of any weakness in you. You saw darkness up close and such a level of darkness is contrary to your nature.

The narcissist intentionally mislead you about who they are, just to exploit you. They shared tender moments with you and caused you to be vulnerable in front of them.

They pretended to be vulnerable with you. They made up stories and lies to get your sympathy and attention. They did all of this to drink your soul.

Any compassionate person that tries to bring light into another person’s life, and then finds out that the person they fell in love with was a lie, would experience a period of brokenness.

The narcissist causes victims a soul sickness, by extracting emotions from you, by methods you did not consent to.

You are going to feel broken for a period of time…

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  1. J
    Jan 28, 2016 @ 00:20:18

    I so love the part that states “they pretended to be vulnerable with you” ohh how this act of betrayal hurts. It hurts so deeply and so badly. But you have to dive off the “cliff” again. One must now trust their self enough to become open and vulnerable in order to start healing. This is challenging.

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    • gentlekindness
      Jan 28, 2016 @ 05:54:23

      Thank you for taking the time to comment, and you are right that part really does hurt. We remember how they seemed so vulnerable, and they said that we were the only one they trusted. I remember wanting to save my ex from all the pain and the abuse he claimed that others were doing to him. He told me he was a “codepemdent” and that because he was so trusting and kind, that people took advantage of him all the time.

      It turned out to be the opposite. I never would have guessed that he was the one that had abused all those people he talked about, and that it was he who was exploiting all those workers of his, family and friends he had.
      They are like chamelions that can be any personality they want to be..on demand…to adapt to any circumstance.

      Thank you for sharing with us.
      Much love,
      Annie ❤

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