Dealing with a Toxic Parent

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Dealing with a toxic parent is frustrating and it can interfere with your personal life. 

Setting boundaries with them can feel impossible. You don’t know whether to go low contact or no contact with them. The feelings driving you are coming from your subconscious belief system that has been conditioned into you by the parent, and society. 

You may feel like you are taking the more noble path by continuing to cater to them, but you are being driven by habits that have been repeated since your childhood. Thought behaviors and conditioned emotions drive your choices. 

You can override your conditioned patterns, but you have to identify what false beliefs you are holding first. 

For more information and help, visit the gentlekindnesscoaching web site, and follow me on the facebook page.

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4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. fightinglikehell
    Jul 18, 2016 @ 13:09:24

    I so needed this today. Thank you and bless you on your journey.

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  2. sepultura13
    Jul 23, 2016 @ 09:54:35

    I had to go with the “no contact” option…and yes, it is difficult! That conditioning is the hardest thing to de-program from, I think.

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    • gentlekindness
      Jul 23, 2016 @ 17:51:44

      Yes and many people are judgemental about you if you tell them you are not speaking to a family member..or your parents.
      They don’t understand that there was no love from the parent towards you.

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