Three Things You are Not Obligated to do for Your Narcissistic Mother

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  1. Alexis Rose
    Jul 18, 2016 @ 10:37:42

    Love this!

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    • gentlekindness
      Jul 18, 2016 @ 14:04:29

      Thank you. I am glad you found it and had time to watch it.
      Visit again,and hopefully I’ll hear from you over at the YouTube channel also.
      Annie πŸ‡πŸŒΈπŸ‡πŸŒΈπŸ‡πŸŽ΅

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  2. helentastic67
    Jul 19, 2016 @ 09:00:05

    I keep thinking my mum isn’t Narcasistic, but she’s a crazy control freak who wants her efforts to be recognised and given credit. She is a Narcasist isn’t she? Nailed it!

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    • gentlekindness
      Jul 19, 2016 @ 15:12:44

      It is hard for me to say, without hearing more about her. You can watch the other videos on my channel to learn more.
      Also the Sam Vaknin videos are very good to learn about narcissism from.
      You can follow the genylekindness facebook page here
      https://www.facebook.com/gentlekindnesscoaching/?ref=bookmarks

      You can do a coaching session with me by contacting me at the contact page of the web site. I have a special for the summer for new clients –
      2 sessions for 26 dollars
      http://www.gentlekindnesscoaching.com/

      If you feel that she always wants to be in control of your life and she thinks she is entitled and manipulative, then she probably is a narcisisst.
      Another sign is pathological lying. This one can be hard to tell with family ,members because we tend to assume they are telling the truth, and we don’t consider the possibility that they lie to our face.

      The lies can be about their intentions towards you…like saying they are only
      doing things for your own good”
      And
      “because you know you have never really been good at that, so I have to
      do it for you..or decide for you”

      That kind of thing.
      Other tactics are “triangulation” and
      “blame shifting”
      and the Divide and Conquer mentality within the family. Turning siblings and other family members against each other. often by lying about what they say about each other, or unjustly comparing them to one another.
      See this video about behaviors of narcissist mothers towards their daughters.

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