Well, 2019 was a torturous year for me. Now it is 2020, and I am taking new actions, designed to be more condusive to the journey I want to be on.
It takes time to move things in a new direction. The steps and consistency in those steps can mean pain. But at least you will be choosing your pain, and making moves based on your own mind.
If you don’t choose your pain, someone will choose it for you. And most likely it will be to build their agenda.
So, be free and think for yourself. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes, because mistakes are part of moving forward.
Be accountable, but not judgemental of yourself.
If you realize something you tried didn’t work, then learn from it and move on. Don’t dwell on anything negative.
Don’t let other people’s judgement and opinions, about what you are doing, get into your head. Brush them off.
Only your opinion really matters about how you are living your life, and building your future. You can modify and adapt your plan as you go along.
Make plans and take actions that match your values, your priorities and how you want to live.
If you don’t establish what means something to you, and why you are doing what you are doing, someone will do it for you. And then you will be wasting time serving someone else’s agenda.