There is Light Beyond the Darkness of Mental Abuse

Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissistic abuse is painful. You can experience such grief in the midst of being emotionally abused that you feel hopeless.

Depression and anxiety can overcome your heart, your mind and your soul. Healing from this extreme level of multi-layered pain takes time.

You are not alone. Living in sn abusive environment is like living in hell. Your reality can become twisted all around by the abuser, who does this intentionally. They get some sadistic pleasure from confusing you and stripping away your identity.

All kinds of symptoms can arise, even months after you are out of the abuse. The psychopath or narcissist wants you to still think about them after they are gone. It feeds their addiction to attention and grandiosity.

You feel small and insignificant…and like you are living under a heavy  weight that you can hardly move underneath of.

You can heal and regain your sense of self…

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  1. Heart Shaped Eyes
    Jan 19, 2016 @ 14:51:42

    True, such a good post. As we grow in mastery of ourselves, learning from the past..
    as we become so conversant and start to heal some of our own subconscious shadow land content, we become much harder to manipulate from that center.Those things can’t be used against us so easily. These days, the first time someone shows me that I don’t matter to them…I know they are not the one. It’s like Maya Angelou said
    “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time”

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    • gentlekindness
      Jan 20, 2016 @ 04:47:36

      I like that quote. Psychopaths often do reveal who they are early in the relationship. We just don;t really listen when they say something disturbing in the midst of the love bombing.
      They are very sweet at the beginning of the relationship and it is hard to want to believe that one thing they say in passing, that is the mask slipping to reveal their true nature. Tricky business…..

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  2. Heart Shaped Eyes
    Jan 20, 2016 @ 17:52:07

    Yes, looking back I can totally see the covert admissions that were stated and that I whitewashed…
    So true!

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